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in an argument, your opinion on something does not matter as much as you may think. I/we want to hear your View on things - another angle - so we together can come up with an answer. opinions can be used as a viewpoint but you must stop acting as if your opinion on something is the absolute definition of it.
and you putting others down won't actually help you unless all you want with the argument is to annoy people. if that is what you get off on, then fuck you.

(I am writing this as a direct response to someone who I had an argument with, and it ended with her saying something along the lines of 'you're so stupid' simply because she couldn't accept anything else than her own opinion, and then she blocked me. very much like a teenager screaming at her parents that they are So immature right before slamming the door to her room. if you recognize yourself when reading this, fuck you too)

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I've gotten into a lot of discussions about a number of different things, all leading to the same answer so I'll just sum it up here;

you have a problem with something? do something about it.
being weak wont get you anything, being weak is bad in that way. how do you get strong then? act.
being strong is not about physical strength, it's about getting things done and standing firm.
stubborness? no, you can be just as openminded as you'd like, just stop hesitating and pussying out.

people ask me in mockery; "so you really think being weak is a bad thing?" - if you want something but are too lazy and comfortable to do anything about it or take on any responsibilities of any kind and choose to whine about it instead - then yes, being weak is bad.
if you are fine with being weak - good for you, stop whining about it though.